The Eyes of Black Cat

I used to be superstitious about black cats and walking under ladders. Other things that I would bow down to were: If your right hand is itching, you'll get money. If your left hand itches than you'll have to pay a bill. If your eye is jumping than you're going to get mad. If you're ears are ringing than someone is talking about you. I don't pay attention to any of that anymore. I focus on the positive and speak life, abundance and prosperity into all situations around me. I generally don't like cats. I have a black cat that roams my neighborhood. I am not scared when I see it. I look at it and say, "Hello".

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My first job was a waitress at a nice restaurant in Petersburg, VA. I made below minimum wage plus tips. I was in college and wasn't looking to get rich. My goal was to have living money while I was in school. I remember the tips being pretty good. I took extra shifts when I could. They could depend on me to work when someone called in. I liked the people that I worked with. The Customer’s were nice. The job ended when the semester was over and I went home for the summer. I don't remember why I didn't go back. The food was delicious. I used one of their recipes to wow people at dinner parties. And, I discovered my love for garlic-mashed potatoes from there.

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This is cute.

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Hello Good People,

This was a great weekend. I ate so much food. I should be on a liquid diet for two for all the food I ate. On Friday evening, I went to Linwoods. I didn’t start out going to Linwoods but we got to the intended restaurant, it wasn’t what I expected. We didn’t go in. I had calamari for an appetizer. They serve a crab cake over a fried tomato with corn pudding and green beans. It was delicious. I’m definitely going back. I’ve told two people about it already. On Saturday, I went to a great cook out. It was fun to hang out with friends and meet new people. On Sunday, I went to the National Harbor for brunch at the Pienza Italian Market at the Gaylord Hotel. I ate enough food to feed a small country. They ambience is great, the food is fantastic, it is something that you would want to experience if you are in the DC area. We walked around the harbor afterwards. A Beetle’s cover band was giving an outdoor concert. It was a beautiful day. I went into the Peeps store for the first time. I didn’t realize that people liked peeps like that. Obviously they do because the store was packed. Lastly, I saw Takers today. I had some expectation before going to the movie. I would recommend it to anyone. It was good to see on the big screen. You will also enjoy it on the small screen.

I am feeling this song:

She is sanging this song.

Have a blessed week,
K.M. Abney

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Hello Good People,
This was my birthday weekend. I spent a lot of time with daughter. I went to the movies, browsed the bookstore and picked up a new journal. I got my eyebrows waxed. I pretty much did what I wanted to do this weekend. I relaxed and recharged my battery. I got many birthday wishes and great surprises. Some of the surprises were good and others not so. I am still blinking and breathing so it is fine.

This birthday feels different. Usually, it feels like the same old thing on a different day. I have a different energy surrounding me this time. I don’t know if it is because I’ve been meditating and praying but I feel different this year.

Hope you had nice weekend,
Kenya A.

I’m feeling this song right now.

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Love Triangle!! पती पत्नी और वो

Rachel and Leah are best friends. Leah’s boyfriend is Ryan. The three of them are inseparable. Leah has an opportunity to work and live across the country for six months. She decides to take advantage of the opportunity. Rachel and Ryan don’t want her to leave. Ryan and Leah do all the things that couples do when they are in long distance relationships. In the meanwhile, Ryan and Rachel are doing things together like Leah is with them. Secretly, Ryan had a crush on Rachel but ended up with Leah. He is getting what he always wanted, to be with Rachel. Rachel is looking at Ryan with fresh eyes but she feels bad about that since Leah is her best friend. Leah is enjoying her new life on her own without a best friend joined at her hip and male company without the pressure of a relationship. No one wants to say how they feel.

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I blame it on Mary. She could always resolve herself to any situation. She didn’t acknowledge disappointment or sadness. She knew how to keep things inside. She knew how to save herself for herself. She could see a picture and never notice the details. Her attention was always on everything and nothing at the same time. I am the opposite.



“That is a pretty dress that Rita is wearing.” Mary said casually as she gazed out the window. “She sure has changed since we were kids. I hardly recognized her.”



I thought that I was better than Rita. Always did. What did I care about her dress? Or, how different she is? I didn’t comment. I kept slicing grapes for the chicken salad I was working on for our book club meeting that afternoon. “I thought she would be a nice addition to our group. At the very least, we can all get reacquainted with her.”



“Mary, you know that I was never acquainted with her in the first place.”



“Leon didn’t make it seem that way. I invited her to join the club after we all bumped into each other at the grocery store. “ Mary scrunched up her forehead as if trying to recall something. “Actually, I bumped into the two of them talking.”

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Hello Good People,

This is some kind of summer. I think that I’m having a crisis. Or, I want to press the reset button and overhaul my entire life. My birthday is in a couple of weeks. I’m not feeling this way because of that. I’m feeling this way because I’m feeling like I’ve been mismanaging my life and I don’t know what to do to stop it. I’m scared of going another way. I’m used to being lost, unappreciated and hiding from my true feelings. I’m used to not knowing what I want and being fine with going with the flow even when it drifts me far from the shore that I think I want to be on. This summer, I thought that I was going to loose my job. At first, I was crippled with fear. I thought about all the debt that I’m in. I thought about my mortgage and the day-to-day expenses that are getting over my head with a regular paycheck. I started running scared. I was applying for any job I heard about it an the Assistant field in the event that someone tapped me on the shoulder. Than I thought to myself, if I leave before they offer me a package than I won’t be getting what I deserve and I could pay down some debt and live off of that money until the summer ends. I began to fantasize about my days of blogging, doing e-interviews with people that I admire and find interesting, selling t-shirts and bags through café press, writing a screenplay, finally putting my stories together and publishing. Lastly, I want to devise a plan to build my network. I don’t have business success because no one knows me. I’m not meeting eligible bachelors that can lead to the relationship of my dreams because I’m not in the position to meet anyone. I’m not planting the seeds of the fruits that I want in my life. I was going to take two weeks to do nothing and do temp work three days a week. I had my mind wrapped around leaving. Now, I’m not going anywhere. Things have happened that I don’t want to go into over the last couple of months that has changed my attitude about work and my life. I’m taking graduate courses that are showing me that I’m smarter than I thought I was. I can make smart business decisions and my opinion does count. I’m scared because just enough isn’t good enough for me anymore. The picture of what I want my life to be is becoming clearer. I have a lot of work ahead of me. My finances are a mess and I’ve been hiding from them. They are in my e-mail, on my phone and in my face saying pay attention. One of my goals for today is to review the main areas of life: relationships, work, finances, health and spiritual. I’m becoming a new person. This time next week, I will be closer to the shore of my new life.

Stay blessed,
K.M. Abney


This song sums up how I feel right now. What do I want from myself? What do I want for myself? It is an internal battle that only I can fight within myself.

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This is a blast from the past.

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Good morning,

I'm feeling this song.



Have a great day,
Kenya

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Hello Good People,

Long time, no hear from me. I hope that all is well with you. Today is Independence Day. Tomorrow, I don’t have to work. I’m in a happy place. Since the last time I posted, I got an “A” in my class. That is taking me one step closer to my Graduate Degree. My next class is accounting. Recently, I’ve had awake up call concerning my lack of financial skills; this class is right on time. I need the knowledge so I’m looking forward to taking the class. Recently, I read two books, The 10 Laws of Enduring Success by Maria Bartiromo with Catherine Whitney and Queen of Your Own Life: The Grown-Up Woman’s Guide To Claiming Happiness and Getting The Life You Deserve by Kathy Kinney and Cindy Ratzlaff.

I picked up the 10 Laws of Enduring Success because Maria Bartiromo comes across as a very intelligent woman to me. She always seems to have something worth listening to say. The book is full antidotes and great advice for any stage of success. It is timely for the world that we live in. I recommend it.

Here are the 10 Laws:
1. Self-knowledge: Listen to your heart
2. Vision: Plant your dreams on solid ground
3. Initiative: Keep rattling the cage
4. Courage: Be bold, smart and fair
5. Integrity: Do the right thing
6. Adaptability: Stay open to change
7. Humility: Hold on to your humanity
8. Endurance: Build your stamina
9. Purpose: Know what matters most
10. Resilience: Get up and move on

Redbook magazine did a review of Queen of Your Own Life. Since I saw in the library, I decided to pick it up. It was an easy read with a friendly tone. The advice was doable and realistic. The authors shared stories about themselves in this book as well. One of the Author’s, Kathy Kinney, is best known as Mimi Bobeck from the Drew Carey Show. If you feel underappreciated and need a to feel good about yourself this is a good read for you.

Did I mention that I went with my daughter to see Pam Greer at a book signing? We didn’t get my book signed because there were too many people. It was after work and I didn’t feel like waiting in line forever. She was everything I expected: beautiful physically and spiritually. I was glad that we went.

I am thankful for all the men and women that put their lives on the line so I can live my life. I enjoy the freedom to pursue my personal happiness. I hope you feel the same.

Stay blessed,
Kenya

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Hello,

Today I watched Gentlemen Prefer Blondes. It has been many years since I have watched it. I remembered liking it. I didn't remember the details. It was pretty entertaining. Jane Russell dropped it like it was hot in the court room scene. And, Marilyn Monroe was her usual. The only annoying thing is Marilyn's whispering but that is how she made her name. Here is a hot scene. I understand why Madonna channeled her for the Material Girl video.





You know what they say, there is nothing new under the sun. Hope you had an opportunity to get out of the house and enjoy the sunshine. I did.

Have a good one,
Kenya

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Hello People,

Every life is precious and unique. We all leave something that affects someone in a positive way. Dr. Dorothy Height is someone that I admired. The world is experiencing a great loss. Thankfully her legacy will live on. Please read what others had to say about her below.

Have a great evening,
Kenya


The following statement from Attorney General Eric Holder on the passing of Dr. Dorothy Height was released today by the U.S. Department of Justice:

"Today we mourn the loss of Dr. Dorothy Height, a preeminent leader in our nation's civil rights movement. Whether representing African-American women during the 1963 March on Washington, organizing 'Wednesdays in Mississippi' at Freedom Schools, or mentoring women's organizations across the country and abroad, Dr. Height's commitment to the cause of justice and equality helped to 'open wide the freedom gates' for countless Americans.

"As we reflect on and celebrate her many contributions in defiance of injustice, our thoughts and prayers are with the Height family. As Dr. Height once said, 'Greatness is not measured by what a man or woman accomplishes, but by the opposition he or she has overcome to reach his goals.' By that measure, Dorothy Height embodied greatness. Although she will be dearly missed, Dr. Height's leadership and her enduring optimism will continue to inspire our nation's work to ensure justice for all."

The following is a statement from the National Medical Association:

"We are deeply saddened by the passing of Dr. Dorothy Height. She was an endearing friend to many of us, a great civil rights icon on the stage of history, and a national treasure of immense dignity. Her lifelong fight for civil rights and equality changed forever the vistas of hope and opportunity for both African Americans and women. Dr. Height's influence on America and indeed the world will not be forgotten. Her life is an example of the type of servant leadership we should all aspire to emulate."

AJC mourns the passing of Dorothy I. Height, a remarkable leader and friend of the Jewish community, who courageously pressed for racial equality in the civil rights era. Ms. Height was 98 years old.

"Dorothy Height's leadership in the fight for civil rights exemplified the moral courage that was so necessary to end segregation in the United States," said AJC Executive Director David Harris. "Her tireless efforts resulted in extraordinary gains for African Americans."

Height served 41 years as President of the National Council of Negro Women. Called the "Queen Mother" of the civil rights movement, Height is credited with convincing the YWCA's chapters to implement local interracial charters in the face of segregation. Her initiatives trained thousands of women to become activists in their communities.

"We valued our close working relationship with her as emblematic of the cooperative ties between the African-American and Jewish communities throughout the civil rights struggle," said Harris. "She was an inspiring and cherished friend of the Jewish people and we will miss her voice of principle and passion. Her death marks the passing of a unique era in American history."
Height was a regular guest at AJC Annual Meetings and also a participant in an AJC-sponsored study mission to Israel in 1967.

Speaker Nancy Pelosi released the following statement today on the passing of civil rights leader Dr. Dorothy I. Height:

"Men and women of every race and faith are heirs to the work, passion, and legacy of Dr. Dorothy I. Height. From her earliest days as an activist, she fought for equality under the law for every American -- recognizing that the battle for civil rights extended to African Americans, women, the disabled and anyone denied the chance to succeed because of who they are. For four decades, she stood at the helm of the National Council of Negro Women, continuing the struggle for an America that lived up to its ideals of liberty and opportunity, regardless of race or gender.

"In every fight, Dr. Height turned the tides of history toward progress. Today, we live in an America that Dorothy Height helped to shape -- a nation defined by equality, shaped by civil rights, and driven by the pursuit of justice for all.
"Our thoughts and prayers are with the family, friends, and loved ones of Dorothy Height -- the mother of the civil rights movement and a champion for social justice. Her loss is felt by all who knew her, who respected her, and who followed in her footsteps. The nation mourns the passing of this giant of American history. We will all deeply miss her commitment, compassion, and devotion to a better future."

Congressman Chaka Fattah (D-PA), Chair of the Congressional Urban Caucus issues the following statement on the death of Dr. Dorothy Height, maven of the civil rights movement:

"I join the nation as we mourn the death of a gentle yet powerful leader, Dr. Dorothy Height. A woman of vision, her pioneering spirit and extraordinary sphere of influence was the catalyst that catapulted those from only dreaming of a better world to actually experiencing a better world.

"Dignified, diligent and distinctive in her leadership skills, Dr. Height was an impressive leader in the struggle for equality for all people. Her life was the epitome of compassion and commitment for a society where people are respected for their individuality, recognized for their labor and honored for their humanity.

"While her voice has been silenced, her works will echo throughout history as a woman who understood the need for change and tirelessly labored to make that change. Today, millions can bear witness to the influence her legacy has had on their lives."

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Hello Good People,

This was the perfect weekend for me. The weather was perfect. Spoke with my niece about her birthday party. I was able to relax, recharge and complete my paper that is due tomorrow. Praise the Lord. I'm going through a transformation. I made a change to my appearance. I have highlights and a lighter shade of brown. I really like it. It fits the person that I am becoming. Usually, I go darker, jet black to be exact. This is a lighter breezy color. I am becoming lighter and less intense as I get older. Sometimes, I feel like I am 15 years older than I am. I want to enjoy my life. I want to be full of joy and happiness. I want to feel like a young woman, not an old lady.

I saw Our Family Wedding yesterday. It was what I expected, funny. I enjoyed the story line. I will probably buy it and pull it out to watch when my family comes to visit. I hope that they have bonus footage on the DVD. I am sure that they had very funny scenes that didn't make the movie. If you don't know what it is about, here is the trailer. I hope you get a chance to see it.



Common has a new movie coming out with Queen Latifah. I am going to see it. Common is sexy. I don't mind watching him for 90 minutes. Here is the trailer.



It wouldn't be Sunday night if I didn't post a video. I know that people at upset with Chris Brown for what happened between him and Rhianna. I am not one of those people. They are both young. We all make mistakes. This is a good song.



Have a great week,
Kenya

PS I am glad that the healthcare bill passed. There is nothing worse than being sick and not able to go to the doctor. I think that everyone should be allowed to see a doctor and get decent healthcare regardless of their economic status. As everyone knows, you are nothing without your health.

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Good Times
This show takes me back to my childhood. After school, or on a Saturday morning, throughout my life I have watched the show. Do I know what will happen after watching the first five minutes? Yes. Do I keep watching? Yes. I can always depend on a good laugh, life lesson or the grateful feeling of knowing that isn't my life.

Sex in the City
For many years, I had an appointment every Sunday night with Charlotte, Samantha, Miranda and Carrie. I had an instant connection with those ladies. I am an adult woman that has never been married. I would like to be in a healthy and prosperous relationship with a man that leads to a successful and happy marriage. I have issues with navigating relationships. During the run of that show, I was single, fell in love, lived with someone, fell out of love, and was single again. Every Sunday night, regardless of the phase I was in, those ladies were there to make me laugh at life.

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I believe that there is a conspiracy to make black women look bad in the minds of the general public. Michelle Obama is the opposite of every stereotype you can think of. Since she has been introduced to the general public, it seems like more and more negative statistics come out about black women. Black women are: most likely to never get married, have a net worth of $5.00 and genital herpes. Not to mention the statistics about abortion. Now, commercials about abortion are targeted to young black women. If I hear one more negative statistic about black women, I am going to stop watching the news. Could be just me.

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ESSENCE Announces Retirement of Esteemed Beauty & Cover Director Mikki Taylor -- NEW YORK, March 17 /PRNewswire/ --

Hi Good People,

I have been reading Essence magazine since I was a kid. I still read it to this day. I enjoyed Mikki Taylor's spirit. I wish her the best of luck.

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Bite my tongue
Every day, someone says or does something that I am not happy about. I keep a lot of my thoughts and feelings in my head.

Pray and talk with God
I ask for guidance. I ask for peace and assurance. I lean on God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit that lives in me for everything. Even when I don't understand it, I am where I am supposed to be when I am supposed to be there.

Laugh
I love to laugh. I am interested in enjoying my life. I make jokes to lighten the mood. I make jokes because something is really funny. I make jokes because I love to laugh.

Give encouragement or say something positive
I like to say positive and nice things to people. You never know what is going on with a person. A kind word could make a big difference in someone's day. I like to plant seeds in people. I can see people's greatness. I can be around a person and see possibilities in them. Those that have listened to me, were grateful and happy that they did. Say something good to someone today.

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Hello Good People,

It is another Sunday night. I’m mentally preparing for another Monday. I personally like Monday’s. The day reminds me of possibilities. There is a possibility that the week may be better than you think. Also, I talk to people that love their jobs. Some of them don’t like the weekends because they can’t wait to get into the thick of things. Other people never turn off from their job because it is so interesting to them that they don’t want to get away from it. Those people have careers. I have a job. I am searching for my career.

This has been the longest February in history. I don't know if it is the snow, or the extra work at my job. It felt like every time I turned around, I was shoveling snow. At work, there aren't enough hours in the day to do my job. I don't get overtime. I skip lunch and work late, I still don't get everything done that I need to. I spent most of this month feeling overwhelmed and looking for encouragement. Every morning, I pray for a scripture to get me through the day. I am not new to Christianity. I grew up in the Baptist Church and as an adult go between Baptist and AME. God has been leading me to scriptures that I never read before that are perfect for getting me through the day. I always receive just what I need. It gets me going in the morning and carries me through the day. I guess this isn't totally bad since it is getting me deeper and deeper into scripture.

Economics is more interesting than I thought. I still have a mental block when it comes to the charts and graphs but I’m working through that. When I read the material and try to apply it to my life, I’m able to make some connections. So far, I have communicated with my Team members online. We are going to have our first conference call this week. I hope that we all mesh well. In my last group, we all worked well together. I pray for a good experience.

I had a good weekend. I volunteered at the Reginald F. Lewis Museum. I have been there several times, this time I went through the exhibit with a native Baltimorean. His take on the exhibits were really interesting. He remembered most of the places and people. He is also a person that is really into politics. He was able to connect the impact that people of the past have on people today. He was able to engage my daughter in the exhibits. She isn’t a Museum person like me. I am looking forward to working hard this week at school and home. Speaking of at home, I cleaned my room today and washed clothes. I haven’t washed clothes in a month. I am glad my daughter is an age that she washes her own clothes. Anyway, my room still has some clutter but it looks so fantastic otherwise that I am very pleased with myself.

I am feeling these two songs tonight:

'Love It' by Bilal



Here a couple of things to remember as you go about the daily grind:
1. What you think about, you bring about. Stay focused and going forward, you will eventually get there.
2. Taking one step dramatically increases your chances of success over never doing anything.
3. If God put it in your heart and on your mind, you can achieve it. Don’t focus on the weapons formed against you. They will not prosper. You are created for success.

This is a bonus to start you on the right foot:


Stay blessed and beautiful,
Kenya

PS. I am not totally self-absorbed. Here is the link to Red Cross and AmeriCares. You can donate for Haiti and Chilean Relief. If not for the Grace and Mercy of God, it could be you or I.

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Hello Good People,

I am so glad that the snow is melting. I am afraid for the bushes in front of my house. It looks the like the snow is dragging down the bushes in the wrong way. I am dreading seeing the damage. I pray that I am wrong.

Today was a busy and tough day. I am glad that it is Tuesday evening and not Tuesday morning.

Highpoints of the day:
1. Talked to my crush. He is so handsome and cute. He always says something that makes me smile.
2. I found a formal dress for my daughter. I was about to purchase the dress when I saw the perfect pair of earrings. Glad to have that off of my list.
3. I bought a couple of work dresses and a cute skirt for myself. Made a hair appointment for Thursday. I am upgrading myself. Slowly, surely, I am taking better care of myself. It is not what I went to the mall for but I am satisfied.
4. This months Redbook and Barbie Collector magazines came in the mail today. I can’t remember a time that I didn’t love Barbie. On the real, when my daughter was ready to give away her Barbie’s, it hurt me more than it hurt her. I have a couple of Barbie’s tucked away still in their boxes. We can keep that between us.
5. Economics isn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be. I understand the concepts. For the most part, that “A”, I’m striving for is within my reach. It is not going to be a piece of cake. I’m definitely going to work for it. I am going to feel good about my accomplishment.
6. I’ve decided to resurrect my book for the last time. I’m working on a chapter a week. Whatever I write is it. I’ve been working on making it perfect. Really, I’ve been procrastinating on my dream. Honestly, I want the money for my retirement.

Also, I am developing into a business woman. I am becoming more equipped to handle the business side of being an author.
I am grateful for the people that God brings into my life. I am grateful for the people that pray for me and support me. I am glad when I am able to be a blessing to other people with my words and deeds. This year, I am sowing seeds and putting the work in. Did I mention that I finally caught up with the rest of the world and saw Avatar. It was a really good movie. It has something for everyone. I have completed my cup of tea. It is time to pray and go to sleep.

May you have peace and blessings, stay strong and guided by the Holy Spirit.
Kenya

Today was a Kanye day. I haven't heard either of these songs in months. Today, I heard them on the radio and saw the videos on tv. Enjoy.

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Hi Good People,

I have completed my first course at the University of Phoenix. I am giving myself two presents for graduation: a trip to Phoenix, Arizona and chocolate diamonds. I got my eye on that diamond. I am getting a bracelet and ring. I haven't picked it out yet but I know that it is on it's way. I start a statistics class on Tuesday. Pray for a Sister. I have always been intimidated by math. This is my sowing seeds and conquering fears time. I am facing a lot head on these days.

I had a great weekend. Really recharged my battery. I finally caught up with the rest of the world and saw Avatar. It was really good. I liked the message. I had lunch and walked the mall with my friend Andrea. We caught up and talked about life. I slept to nine yesterday morning. I woke up at six this morning. Went back to bed at six thirty and woke up at 10. I obviously needed rest. Tomorrow is going to be a great day. I am looking forward to a productive and peaceful work week. I am about to have a cup of tea and two crackers. I'm watching "How To Make It In America" on HBO. This must be a free weekend. I have the Showtime channel as well. I'm watching while I can. Show is ok so far. When it goes off, I'm going to bed.

Have a good one,
Kenya

PS, Here are three songs I am feeling right now. Enjoy.

Try Sleeping With A Broken Heart @ Yahoo! Video

Sex Therapy @ Yahoo! Video

It Kills Me @ Yahoo! Video

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Hello Good People,

This has been some kind of month for me. As you know, when you take on a new challenge that may elevate your life to another level, the devil gets busy.

As you know, I started taking a class towards my Master’s degree with University of Phoenix. I have awesome classmates and even better teammates. I am working with three great women that always ask the right questions and are not afraid to do their part on projects. We accomplish great things together. I am thankful to God for them. I started out shakey.com because I had posting anxiety. Once I got over it, I was able to understand the course work better and contribute to my group and class overall. I am not an “A” student, more like a high “C”. The fat lady hasn’t song so I am expecting a “B” when the curtain closes. It is a six-week class, and I am in week five. It has been a challenge but I’ve conquered it.

My Dad was unexpectedly admitted to the hospital. He ended up having brain surgery. I did a lot of traveling between New York and Baltimore to be there for my family. After a trip back from New York, I started having car problems. A couple of days after getting it fixed, on a sunny Friday morning I had a flat tire. I had a mini-break down than got my tired repaired and went on with my life.

Nothing is going on with the guy that I have a crush on. He likes women. He probably wants to share his life with someone magnificent. That someone is not I. It is ok. I can’t be everybody’s type. He is still a nice guy. I am still attracted to him. I have had a lot of other things going on in my life to distract me. My crush is fading.

One day, I was having a horrible day at work so I decided to take lunch to get some fresh air. After spending way too much money at bath and body works, I bumped into a guy that always chats me up but never asks me out. To make a long story short, he said that I give off the vibe that I am either married or a Cat Lady. Yes, he called me a Spinster. He said that I give off the vibe that I have at least five cats at home. Those words made me feel good about myself. LOL He told me that I need to work on wanting to be desired. It was really the wrong day for this “coaching”, I had on my “fly betty” boots and a cute outfit. I wasn’t having a good day but I was feeling good about myself. In all honesty, he hurt my feelings. I didn’t let him know that he hurt my feelings. I was on the edge for a couple of days. I am a 36-year-old woman that has never been married before. One of the last things that I want to hear is that I have a “Cat Lady” (aka Spinster) vibe. I don’t want to have more children but I do want to get married and be a wife before I take my last breath. A part of me feels like he wanted to bring me down a peg. I noticed that whenever he saw me, his third sentence was always, “How come you don’t call me?” Now I am definitely not calling him because I think that he thinks that I am a “Cat Lady”.

January has been an emotional long month. Here are some positive and less detailed highlights:

1. My Dad is at home recovering with lots of family surrounding him.
2. My Friends that feels like family that live in Haiti are safe and accounted for.
3. Deborah and Ola got married. Congratulations!!! I watched the ceremony over the Internet.

I’ve come to the realization that this is a sowing seeds year. I am working. Working towards being closer to God. Working towards living and enjoying my life. Working towards taking care of myself. Working on renewing my mind. Working on being better today than I was the day before.

Have a great one people,
Kenya

PS. I promise that I will post more than once a month.

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