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Toad Theories
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We have all heard the saying, “You may have to kiss a few toads before you find your prince.” If you think that is a true statement. Here are a few more theories that you can appreciate:
1. Some toads will never turn into a prince regardless of how much you kiss them.
Every person comes to a point in there lives when they are the person that they are going to be. Some surface things may change but their core is not. Your frog may be just that, a frog. And, if he is you have a decision to make. Are you going to love him for whom he is? Or, are you going to kiss other frogs hoping that the next one will magically transform himself?
2. The toad that you are kissing could be someone else’s Prince that is why he is not transforming.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone that had all the ingredients that should have added up to a perfect mate? I mean you looked at your list twice and it definitely had two checks next to everything that you always wanted but you two are not clicking. You go your separate ways and he marries the next queen in training. You can’t believe it. Before you go into the “Why not me?” mode, remember that he is not for you. There is a pot for every lid and he is not your lid. It is okay to let toads go because you are still a princess and your prince is on his way.
3. Sometimes it takes more than a few kisses for a toad to transform into a prince.
This one goes hand in hand with teaching someone how to treat you. Some frogs never become a prince because in the beginning of a relationship you let them treat you like you’re an unworthy peasant girl that would do anything for him to rescue you from whatever is going on in your life. You’re a princess, which means you are a queen in training. Honestly, you may already be a Queen that wants a mate. So, don’t love someone more than you like yourself. Don’t allow anyone to think that their behavior is acceptable when it is not. Always remember that you are a princess. And, you should be treated that way.
4. Sometimes a Prince is really a toad in disguise.
Let’s be real. Some people look great on paper. And, their presentation is magnificent. You look at them and think to yourself, Damn I am lucky. After you two spend some alone time, you start to feel like, Lord, what did I do to deserve this? I don’t mean that in a good way either. Since they seem so wonderful on the outside looking in, you don’t want to let them go. People will think that you are crazy for breaking it off with this person. Let them think it and even say it because you are the one that has to deal with the fake-me-out prince, not them. If you can attract and be in a relationship with someone that fabulous once than it can happen again. You are a prize. Whomever you choose is the lucky one not the other way around.
5. It doesn’t matter how many toads you kiss, if you are not ready, than your Prince will not come.
This is a hard pill to swallow, but we always get what we deep down inside think that we deserve. Take a minute to think about that. You know that it is true. If you have issues that need to be ironed out; set up the board, plug up the iron and get the wrinkles out. If you want the best for yourself, you have to expect the best and know that you deserve it. You have to be the kind of person that you want to be in a relationship with. We are all works in progress. Progress in our lives should be about improving and growing. When you are happy with yourself, content with life and not looking for someone else to make those things happen your Prince will come.
Quote for the day:
"Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it."- William Feather, 1889-1981, Writer
K.M. Abney has been a featured writer on the web. She is a member of the Black Writers Guild and Toastmasters. She loves feedback and can be contacted at kenmoab1@verizon.net.
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1. Some toads will never turn into a prince regardless of how much you kiss them.
Every person comes to a point in there lives when they are the person that they are going to be. Some surface things may change but their core is not. Your frog may be just that, a frog. And, if he is you have a decision to make. Are you going to love him for whom he is? Or, are you going to kiss other frogs hoping that the next one will magically transform himself?
2. The toad that you are kissing could be someone else’s Prince that is why he is not transforming.
Have you ever been in a relationship with someone that had all the ingredients that should have added up to a perfect mate? I mean you looked at your list twice and it definitely had two checks next to everything that you always wanted but you two are not clicking. You go your separate ways and he marries the next queen in training. You can’t believe it. Before you go into the “Why not me?” mode, remember that he is not for you. There is a pot for every lid and he is not your lid. It is okay to let toads go because you are still a princess and your prince is on his way.
3. Sometimes it takes more than a few kisses for a toad to transform into a prince.
This one goes hand in hand with teaching someone how to treat you. Some frogs never become a prince because in the beginning of a relationship you let them treat you like you’re an unworthy peasant girl that would do anything for him to rescue you from whatever is going on in your life. You’re a princess, which means you are a queen in training. Honestly, you may already be a Queen that wants a mate. So, don’t love someone more than you like yourself. Don’t allow anyone to think that their behavior is acceptable when it is not. Always remember that you are a princess. And, you should be treated that way.
4. Sometimes a Prince is really a toad in disguise.
Let’s be real. Some people look great on paper. And, their presentation is magnificent. You look at them and think to yourself, Damn I am lucky. After you two spend some alone time, you start to feel like, Lord, what did I do to deserve this? I don’t mean that in a good way either. Since they seem so wonderful on the outside looking in, you don’t want to let them go. People will think that you are crazy for breaking it off with this person. Let them think it and even say it because you are the one that has to deal with the fake-me-out prince, not them. If you can attract and be in a relationship with someone that fabulous once than it can happen again. You are a prize. Whomever you choose is the lucky one not the other way around.
5. It doesn’t matter how many toads you kiss, if you are not ready, than your Prince will not come.
This is a hard pill to swallow, but we always get what we deep down inside think that we deserve. Take a minute to think about that. You know that it is true. If you have issues that need to be ironed out; set up the board, plug up the iron and get the wrinkles out. If you want the best for yourself, you have to expect the best and know that you deserve it. You have to be the kind of person that you want to be in a relationship with. We are all works in progress. Progress in our lives should be about improving and growing. When you are happy with yourself, content with life and not looking for someone else to make those things happen your Prince will come.
Quote for the day:
"Plenty of people miss their share of happiness, not because they never found it, but because they didn't stop to enjoy it."- William Feather, 1889-1981, Writer
K.M. Abney has been a featured writer on the web. She is a member of the Black Writers Guild and Toastmasters. She loves feedback and can be contacted at kenmoab1@verizon.net.
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